Working through your marriage with Biblical Truths
Marriage Devotionals: Two Are Better Than One
Devotionals
April 17, 2024
Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NKJV): “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.”
Introduction
Stepping into marriage is stepping into a sacred covenant ordained by God Himself. The wisdom found in Ecclesiastes underscores the beauty of companionship woven into the fabric of marriage.
Together, you stand on the threshold of a partnership designed to multiply joy, share burdens, and glorify God through your unity.
As you meditate on the verse, remember that your togetherness is a gift, an opportunity to witness God’s handiwork in shaping two lives into one fruitful union.
Nurturing this bond requires intentional effort, shared dreams, and a commitment to walk hand in hand, supporting each other in all seasons of life. The promise of this verse resonates in the core of your marriage, urging you to embrace the collaborative spirit that leads to a harvest of blessings. Remember, dear couple, your labor together is not in vain; in unity, you find strength and joy beyond measure.
Husband’s Overview
In your role as the husband, the biblical position assigned to you is one of servant leadership guided by the love of Christ. The verse from Ecclesiastes serves as a poignant reminder of the power of unity, where your support and partnership with your wife bring about a harvest of shared rewards. Understanding the essence of togetherness not only elevates the quality of your relationship but also reflects God’s design for marriage.
As you journey through this devotional, reflect on the profound impact of your words and actions on the unity of your marriage. Here are some questions you can reflect on:
In what ways am I building unity with my wife?
Do my speech and actions encourage togetherness in our relationship or do they push her away?
Am I intentionally creating opportunities for us to bond?
Am I her partner inside the home (or outside the home) or do I leave her to work on home chores alone?
Do I make sure to discuss decisions with her or do I just decide things on my own?
Whatever your answers are to the questions above – remember that you can’t do it on your own, you will need God’s Word and leading to help you cultivate a heart that seeks partnership over independence. When you do so, you can pave the way for a marriage that thrives in the midst of life’s joys and challenges. Embrace your role with humility and love, knowing that your unity with your wife is a reflection of Christ’s love for His church.
Wife’s Overview
The verse from Ecclesiastes invites you, as a wife, to embrace the strength found in unity with your husband. Your support and companionship play a pivotal role in the flourishing of your marriage. By understanding the significance of working together with your husband, you not only deepen your connection but also honor God’s intention for marriage as a partnership of love and mutual respect.
In the daily interactions and decisions within your marriage, strive to embody the qualities of grace, patience, and encouragement. As you nurture the bond with your husband, remember that your unity is a testament to God’s love and faithfulness. Consider the following questions as part of your reflection today:
How am I creating a home built on unity, starting with my relationship with my husband?
In what ways am I extending help/assistance to my husband?
Am I encouraging healthy discussions with my husband? Or do I tend to keep quiet and let him control the conversation or do I tend to shut him off and don’t give him the chance to speak?
Am I making an effort to create that space and time for us to bond?
Do I acknowledge and appreciate the help provided by my husband or do I water it down to “it’s only expected that he do things around the house”
Walk alongside your husband with a spirit of humility and understanding, knowing that together you are stronger, wiser, and more resilient.
Additional Bible Verses for Study
1. Genesis 2:18 (NKJV): “And the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.'”
2. Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NKJV): “Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
3. Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV): “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”
Prayer
Gracious Father, as we begin this journey of togetherness, we seek Your guidance and blessings. Help us, as a couple, to embrace unity and partnership in our marriage. May our hearts be knit together in love and respect, serving as a testament to Your faithfulness and grace. Strengthen us, O Lord, as we labor together, knowing that in unity, we find our greatest reward. Amen.
