1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (NKJV):
“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;”
Introduction
Love, as defined by the scriptures in Corinthians, serves as the cornerstone of every enduring marriage. It is a love that surpasses mere emotions, calling for actions and decisions that reflect the heart of Christ.
Famously referred to as the “Love Chapter”, 1 Corinthians 13 encourages us to build our marital foundation on the virtues of patience, kindness, humility, and selflessness. But it’s not at all that easy. As you meditate on these words today, may God continue to shine a light on your path, marking it by love that endures and overflows.
In a world where love is often misunderstood, the call to embody a love that bears all things, believes all things, and hopes all things is a radical one.
But the best we can do is to embrace the challenge of cultivating a love that mirrors the sacrificial love of Christ, setting a standard for your marriage that brings glory to God. Today, as you delve deeper into the essence of love, may your hearts be filled with a renewed commitment to nurture a bond that is founded on genuine, Christ-like love.
Husband’s Overview
As the husband, your role as a leader in love requires a deep understanding of the qualities described in 1 Corinthians 13. When you say that love is patient, how does this translate to your words, actions, even your thoughts towards your wife? The same goes for when you say, love is kind, love does not evny and so on.
In embodying these qualities of love, the best standard is the sacrificial nature of Christ’s love for His church. But this is not easy at all. However, when we continue to reflect on Christ’s love – His love compels us (2 Corinthians 5: 14-15). Let your love be a beacon of hope and assurance to your wife, a reflection of the unfailing love of our Savior.
By practicing humility and compassion in your interactions, you pave the way for a marriage rooted in grace and understanding. The virtues of love outlined in this passage serve as a guide for you in leading your family with gentleness and wisdom. Embrace the transformative power of love that is not self-seeking but self-giving, laying the foundation for a marriage that honors God in all things.
Wife’s Overview
As a wife, the call to embody the virtues of love outlined in Corinthians is a sacred duty. Your role in nurturing a spirit of patience and kindness within your marriage speaks volumes about your commitment to your husband and to God. When you work towards creating an environment that is free from envy and pride, you create a space where love can flourish, unencumbered by worldly concerns.
So the question is – how are you indeed fostering growth for this kind of love in your relationship? Reflect on Christ’s love and His love will be your guide – our own brand of love will never conquer the challenges, but Christ’s love will (1 Corinthians 13:7).
So as you continue to build on a love that is not easily provoked or resentful, trust in God and He will see you through. Check out these practical examples that you can mirror in your walk:
- Choose forgiveness
- Prioritize grace in your interactions
- Embrace goodness
- Winning is not always necessary
- Harsh words will never make you feel good
As you embrace the virtues of love described in this passage, may your marriage be a living testimony to the transformative power of God’s love.
Additional Bible Verses
- Colossians 3:14 (NKJV): “But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection.”
- Ephesians 4:2 (NKJV): “With all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love,”
- 1 Peter 4:8 (NKJV): “And above all things have fervent love for one another, for ‘love will cover a multitude of sins.'”
Prayer
Heavenly Father, pour out Your love into our hearts, that we may love one another as You have loved us. Grant us the strength to embody the virtues of love outlined in Corinthians, bearing with one another in humility and grace. May our marriage be a reflection of Your perfect love, a testimony to the world of Your boundless mercy and compassion. Guide us, O Lord, in building a foundation of love that endures all things and rejoices in Your faithfulness. Amen.
